fix: Handle react call going from box to violin plot

[camdecoster]

Description

Update box plot defaults to handle situation where Plotly.react is called to switch from box to violin plot.

Changes

• Update default handling logic
• Add test

Screenshots

Before	After

Testing

• Be on master
• Run the following snippet in Plotly devtools

  const box = {
      type: 'box',
      q1: [0.2],
      median: [0.5],
      q3: [0.8],
      lowerfence: [-2.5],
      upperfence: [2.7],
      name: 'X',
      boxpoints: false
  };
  const data = Array.from({ length: 500 }, () => (Math.random() - 0.5) * 4);
  const violin = {
      type: 'violin',
      y: data,
      box: { visible: true },
      meanline: { visible: true },
      name: 'X'
  };
  
  Plotly.newPlot(gd, [box]).then(() => Plotly.react(gd, [violin]));

• Note the errors in the console and the incorrect violin plot
• Switch to this branch
• Run the same snippet
• Note that there are no errors and and the correct violin plot
• Also check CI

[emilykl]

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