feat(memory): add optional Mem0 backend for skill iteration and reflection tracking

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Summary

• Adds an optional skillopt/memory backend that persists skill iterations and reflection patches to Mem0 during training.
• Wires it into ReflACTTrainer via non-breaking hooks (maybe_init_mem0, hook_post_evaluate, hook_post_reflect) that no-op when MEM0_API_KEY is unset.

Details

• maybe_init_mem0(cfg) is called once before the training loop starts.
• hook_post_reflect runs after each step's accumulation loop, recording raw patches and aggregate hard/soft scores.
• hook_post_evaluate runs after the evaluation gate updates the current skill/score.

Test plan

• python3 -m py_compile skillopt/engine/trainer.py passes
• Manual training run with MEM0_API_KEY set to confirm skill iterations land in Mem0

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