[jdbc-v2,client-v2] Build callback interface to for spans

[chernser]

Descriptions

Here is semantic convention for DB operations spans https://opentelemetry.io/docs/specs/semconv/db/database-spans/

Some information can be provided by user application only. Passing it thru configuration is too much and doesn't work with dynamic values. So callback for adapter would work better. Base adapter can be implemented by client but should not include any observability library as dependency.

Here is what client can set in this adapter:

Attribute	Available?	Where from
db.system.name	always	constant clickhouse
db.namespace	always	ClientConfigProperties.DATABASE from merged settings
db.query.text	query/command only	the sqlQuery argument; stream inserts have no user SQL
db.collection.name	insert / getTableSchema only	the tableName argument
db.operation.name	insert/ping/schema only	known by which API was called
db.query.summary	no (client-v2)	requires a SQL parser
server.address / server.port	per attempt; at start only if single-endpoint	Endpoint from nodeSelector
db.response.status_code	on failure	X-ClickHouse-Exception-Code header, read in readError
error.type	on failure	exception class or ClientFaultCause
db.response.returned_rows	on success	result_rows from X-ClickHouse-Summary
db.operation.batch.size	POJO insert only	List#size()
db.query.parameter.	query only	the queryParams map
network.peer.*	no	Apache HttpClient doesn't surface it at this layer
clickhouse.query_id	usually	assigned at Client.java:1819-1821